Today I woke up at 11am. First time in my life to wake up so late. But then anyway I slept at 230am. :) Got somewhat a good rest.
Instead of talking abt wat I did today...would like to share some thots tat I have.
Today's thoughts are on commitment phobia.
Ever met someone with commitment phobia? This kinda person may be full of passion and hot air. But when it actually comes to the thing, this person is afraid of being tied down. This person may be very apolegetic about it. But...doesn't matter, he just cannot commit.
I guess it is then we have to manage our expectations abt ple. Else we will get really disappointed.
Wokie..
XJ's words of wisdom.:)
7 comments:
hmm.. yeah.. lois has a v.interesting perspective on things..=7
wld never hv thot 'commitment phobe!' if someone did that to me.. but ya, i guess it can b seen that way.
:)
Who's the commitment phobe?
Usually I meet men who are committed... just not to me.
:)
jet
hihi...guess its my first comment to ur blog ya....finally set my com right......yeah!!
hmmmm...i happen to know a few of such pple w commitment issues.....mostly gals for me leh...hehehe
leo
Heys...Jet!!! Welcome...
was tat to prove tat u read my blog afterall? :)
Heys leo!! :)I tink guys are more scared of commitment. Usually.
As for the commitment phobe...
Its some GUY la. I must say.
Its usually guys. haha.
But not in terms of BGR. More in terms of responsibilities at school/work.
mm .. a rare kinda post..:) heh.
Seems when revealing of inner most thoughts is quite rare, it becomes more valuable..hehee..
... er.... r u sure ure talking about school/work ah?
Oh, if so, maybe he really has reasons for not wanting to commit to the task as much as he likes to.
Or some pple have alotta strong opinions about many things and cant possibly set down to doing every one of them...
O/w he doesnt sound like the all talk no action type leh. heh..
hee but it sounds as if ure talking abt something else..:P maybe projecting the circumstance subconsciously..
mm in tt case, ..yah i oso wldnt hv thought of commitment phobia..
mm.. how can be so hard to decide wan..
woah, and u v sexist, leh.. as usual :P Or rather i just dislike gender stereotypes.. esp when it appears to give anyone excuse to behave in any way..:P
Oops sorrie for being sexist. And I'm not giving the male gender an excuse for not committing. Just suggesting that they may have more committment phobia than girls.
Hvnt experienced that yet...
Those i have encountered are really yearning to commit ..or something...
I thought i was the one who fear commitement...
But that's cos... the reason's not strong enough yet for me to wanna commit.. :I
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