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Saturday, September 29, 2007
Where the sun rises
Maybe this is prophetic word for me to go to East Timor? :)
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Anyway I was very blessed by the show, it is one of the most thought provoking and heart stirring shows I've ever watched. Do catch it if you have time. It will only be showing in Cathay Picture house for this saturday and sunday at 1pm and 5pm. Its a documentary movie featuring the history of East Timor and the experiences of President Gusmao. And also what lies ahead for East Timor? After its independence, the director/& Gusmao tell viewers that it is forgiveness and reconciliation whereby the country and its people can move forward.
One of the most poignant moments of the show was when President Gusmao showed us his office building. I think my house looks nicer than his office. ;) But I was deeply touched. Of a man who had been through so much for his country and people, and is not a president for the sake of power, fame or control. Oh, so unlike many of us...
I liked this part a lot. To talk about forgiveness towards someone who has killed your family. Hmm...let me see, who have I not forgiven right now, and why?
“Forgiveness, to me, means peace of mind. If we can forgive, we liberate ourselves from all bad sentiments… of revenge… of self-flagellation. If we forgive, we stop a part of our life. We say no – now I am entering a new phase of my life. If not, I live everyday the sense that I am the worst victim in the world, and we are everyday trying to understand why… and we don’t live in peace. We are always trying to be selfish – “Me…me… why not him, or them?” When we don’t forgive, we don’t free ourself from thinking only on ourselves. Forgiveness is the way to live in peace. Peace not with other people but firstly, with him- or herself.”- Xanana Gusmao
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Ahh...to see a world larger than oneself, to see beyond the mundanity of daily life, to rise above the stresses of life. To see....there is more to life. We need to put on coloured glasses to see the world thru' different eyes. :)
Going to Balai again this sunday for a one day & night trip. Looking forward to it. At the same time, apprehensive, afraid of the stirring in the heart for the ple, and wondering when God will wipe away every tear in their eye. Wondering why life doesn't seem so fair for them. And what use is my little drop of kindness there?
And then....I see it in a larger picture....and recognize once again.
Its meaningless to do it alone, and it only makes sense to do it with Jesus, that He is the one who brings light and real healing to the soul.
Saturday, September 22, 2007
A day for myself :)
In spite of the dark nights of sadness and despair, I felt the loving soft whisper of the Father to calm my soul. And I am very thankful for that. :)
This song especially, lasted me and gave me strength as I was listening to Galvin's album.
SONG OF JOB
by Sebastian Ku
When clouds of darkness
Overwhelms my soul
When the strength of my heart
Fades away
When my friends have left me
All hope seem far away
When the words of comfort
Refuse to stay
There’s a song in the night
There’s a light in the dark
There’s a gentle voice that soothes my heart
For I know that my Redeemer lives
And His love for me will never end
My heart, my flesh may fade away
Yet with my eyes I’ll see my God
In the quiet corner
In the still of night
Your tender presence
Lifts me high
My sweet Companion
My Strength and Guide
My soul’s deep Anchor
In You I abide
You’re the song in the night
You’re the light in the dark
You’re the gentle voice that soothes my heart
For I know that my Redeemer lives
And His love for me will never end
My heart, my flesh may fade away
Yet with my eyes I’ll see my God
I live my life to give You praise
Everyday, every breath, every beat of my heart
This life is captured by Your grace
To worship who You are
Who You are
Whoever that is reading. I wonder if you are in clouds of darkness and you feel like no one understands. Jesus does.
I'm extremely thankful for today's rest at home. Managed to get a good sleep, read a few chapters of a book and prepare bible study. :)
Monday, September 17, 2007
A kingdom of love
It is a pleasant beautiful Monday morning! But as usual, don't feel that I have slept enough over the weekend. Bio-clock has been waking me up faithfully after 6 hours of sleep. Which makes me wonder how much sleep a person needs to sustain oneself.
I had a pretty enjoyable weekend. Cell came to my house for bbq on saturday nite. It has been some time since I hosted ple at my house, and it was kind of heart warming seeing familiar faces popping up at my house. Kind of like juxtaposing familiarity with familiarity. Some of them brought their friends too. I am starting to understand and learn about relationship building and loving others, afterall, our lives are intertwined with others, and connecting with others is what makes us human. =)
I've been reading Brian McLaren's book on "The secret message of Jesus". He talks abt bringing God's kingdom into the places we live, and much more stuff, but a lot of it takes time to digest as he comes from a quite different kind of view. But anyway I think it relates v much to the way we interact with people as well. Loving them and living like Jesus, bringing the Kingdom way of doing things into our lives.
Yesterday I went for ktv with my china trippers. ;) It was a good relaxing time singing and eating. And I miss china. I didnt share much but some of the things we did that I've been sharing with Singaporeans, who kind of cringe at the idea:
- We didn't bathe for 6 days
- The toilets didn't have flushes but consisted of two planks or a hole. Sometimes we went to the bushes.
Haha. And those two pts above are enough to scare singaporeans away, and they look at you like you have suffered! Those experiences are ofcos not exactly comfortable, but contrary to what ple think, i don't think we have sacrificed much. Its just another way of living. We are at a new place with a culture different from us. Trust me, the toilet didn't stink cos they had some hay below to neutralise the smell. The one I went to 4 years back at a rural school toilet was worse, smelt like nitrogen flowing into yr nose. ;) C shared a good pt, she said to the jews be like the jews, to the greeks like the greeks.
I've been bz bz bz like a bee. What's new! But praying for more grace this week. Other then work (multiple list of foreign tasks filling up an A4 page), I've to also come up with publicity for the comm service proj. Also relationships! Some frens who r going thru tough times, hope to call them up and talk. So yup, full time christian everywhere we go.
Friday, September 14, 2007
A touch of heaven
"Friends have to have a bond that is based on an exclusive common interest in which the more uncommon the interest, the greater the bond that binds them... What kind of 'secret' can be so strong that it binds Christians together? For me, the secret I found is the belief that we should love our neighbours as ourselves. It is obedience to the second greatest commandment given by Jesus. It is a call to love the poor."
"Spiritual experiences of joy, peace and feeling the presence of God were never felt despite weak attempts at meditation and waking up in the middle of the night to pray kneeling beside my bed until pain from my knees terminate that feeble attempt after a few minutes...after years of searching, in a dilapidated attap house on stilts in Cambodia, I experienced the presence of God."
"Over the years, I see that our lives have changed little. We were still engrossed with our health, family, career or businesses. The mothers continue to fuss over children, complaining about their children who have grown to become rebellious teenagers. The food was good, the fellowship warm, but deep inside, the still small voice asked: Is this it? Is this all there is to following Christ?"
A touch of heaven. How He lives amongst the poor, and we see God in those places.
I realise that the fear of suffering may not be as great as the fear of aloneness. Of being in a place where you can't find a kindred spirit to share your soul with. How shall the heart survive? Maybe with touches of heaven. ;)
Spoke to my boss during the week, and we decided to go on a local community service proj instead. So this year, we will be cleaning one room flats. ;) I think it is good exposure, to see the hidden parts of Singapore and redeem the forgotten.
Tuesday, September 04, 2007
Finally, a moment of quietness
Thank you my dear blog readers for sharing in my journey. heh. ;o
Yup, as most of you already know, I rejected a job offer which was everything that I wanted, a job to travel and interact with the poor, to teach kids in Singapore about poverty. It was from a humanitarian organization which I look up to and hope to learn from. I had spoken to my bosses and was all set to leave. (that is why I can be so explicit in this blog) Yet, my parents were so upset with me that dad wanted to chase me out of the house. It broke my heart since I love my parents and I want them to share this conviction, and to know God's heart as well. I don't want to stumble them when they are not ready for change. And yup, God's calling should bring peace, I wasn't at peace but very troubled. So I had to reject my dream job, and it was very tough, I feel very broken.
On and off, a question pops up in my mind, what if...I had...
And I know it gets me nowhere, I shouldn't even go by that route. Yup, I am wondering where next right now. Hoping to plan the next trip for my co. to cambodia with Operations Hope Foundation . Other then that I think instead of doing many activities, I should spend time being at rest with God, which I think is the whole purpose of this situation! :)
Today I sat into a course with the associates on hedge funds and the different strategies like arbitrage, long short, global macro etc etc. I've been thinking these days about how the Lord can use me, and what else I have that is different from others. I didn't understand a lot of what was taught, cos I don't think my strength is in finance, but yet He has brought me through uni majoring in finance. And blessed me with a good pay, with understanding bosses who believe in me and try to accomodate to my interests. So I am really praying and seeking how I can fulfill His calling where I am now, how I can contribute to the mkt place ministry. And how I can also share my experiences on those overseas trips with my colleagues. And yup, where I shd give my finances too.
Interestingly, Pastor David talked abt Daniel during service this week, how Daniel was forced to stay in the palace, yet he always remembered his calling. I am not so sure we are in the same situation, tho I do feel quite "forced" to be here. But I remember Joseph didn't have a nice ride either, and the Lord had to teach him lotsa things through the journey. I know my calling to the marginalized and broken hearted, confirmed through this series of events, and I pray that while I am here, I may serve His calling in whichever capacity He has placed me in. =)
And so the moods swing up and down again. Argghs. One moment full of hope & dreams & positivity, the other moment wondering when and where. And wishing and hoping. Perhaps. Ya. And even of someone to accompany me on this journey. But I know that the Lord is good. He really really is so good.
New things are happening at cell too. But its a bit tiring to travel to bukit timah every week now. I reached home at 1145pm yesterday by bus and I am so so so so tired! Really sleepy. Havent been sleeping that well these few days. And since I got back fr my trip, work has been bz. So not much time for a break. But this thur-sat is IDMC ! Looking forward to a time with God.